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The HauteWife

Diary of an Ethical Slut

Tag: stress

Poly: Facing Difficult Times Together

Posted on November 13, 2018November 13, 2018 by The HauteWife

I read many r/poly posts about how parenting and managing a house feels easier for trios and quads, because the… Read more Poly: Facing Difficult Times Together

Relief In Sight

Posted on September 25, 2018 by The HauteWife

I just got home from my follow-up appointment, and a weight has been lifted. According to the doctor, everything points… Read more Relief In Sight

So You Think You’re Poly: Graceful Exits

Posted on April 21, 2018August 17, 2018 by The HauteWife

We’ve all heard the phrase, “begin with the end in mind.” While the sentiment may have originated as a key… Read more So You Think You’re Poly: Graceful Exits

All In the Eye of the Beholder

Posted on April 20, 2018August 17, 2018 by The HauteWife

It’s easy for us to get caught up in the stresses of daily life; little annoyances that pile up until… Read more All In the Eye of the Beholder

Practical Polyfidelity

Posted on April 8, 2018April 8, 2018 by The HauteWife

If I have any frustration with my relationships, it’s how much my low sensory tolerance  affects them. I detest getting… Read more Practical Polyfidelity

What a Pain

Posted on March 25, 2018 by The HauteWife

My relationship with pain has evolved over the years. Early on in my kink experiences, pain served as an outlet… Read more What a Pain

The Wisdom of the Body

Posted on January 3, 2018August 17, 2018 by The HauteWife

In a previous post, I mentioned my trip to Vegas in November, and the bout of Bronchitis I had when… Read more The Wisdom of the Body

Our Circus, Our Monkeys

Posted on December 30, 2017February 26, 2018 by The HauteWife

Whether we’re mono or poly, challenges arise in our romantic relationships for a variety of reasons. At times, these challenges… Read more Our Circus, Our Monkeys

On Boiling Frogs

Posted on October 12, 2017 by The HauteWife

There seems to be this unspoken rule we learn as kids: that we’re only genuinely successful (ergo, happy) if we… Read more On Boiling Frogs

Haute Sex and…Deadpool

Posted on April 21, 2017April 21, 2017 by The HauteWife

Every once in a while, something happens that sours my mood. Perhaps during the course of the day, I wasn’t… Read more Haute Sex and…Deadpool

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