If you’re a new reader, you’ve probably glanced at the preceding post titles and wondered, where’s all the kink and… Read more Where’s the Kink?
I read many r/poly posts about how parenting and managing a house feels easier for trios and quads, because the… Read more Poly: Facing Difficult Times Together
We’ve all heard the phrase, “begin with the end in mind.” While the sentiment may have originated as a key… Read more So You Think You’re Poly: Graceful Exits
When my husband and I chose to include other people in our relationship a little over a year ago, we… Read more Poly: Can We? Could We? Should We?
We returned home more than a week ago from our vacation in Costa Rica. I’ve been slow to post on… Read more First Poly Vacation
If there is one question we ask more than any other in life (whether or not we’re even aware we’re… Read more Where Do We Stand?
Inherent in polyamory is a certain awkwardness as secondary relationships develop. I find, especially, if I am together with my… Read more The Dance of Polyamory
In my experience, the single most important element of any successful relationship is communication. It’s surprising to me how little… Read more Use Your Words
Thursday and Friday were a special kind of ‘first’ for me. I’ve known my lover and top for the better… Read more The Pampered Slut
Last night my pet shared with me some observations she’s made about our new cuckold arrangement. Some of them related… Read more Own It